Dating Coach for Men Who Are Ready
Charmaine Pas at GM Academy helps men attract the right partner by building genuine self-awareness, confidence, and authentic presence.
“The Powerdag with Charmaine was truly a transformative experience. A new relationship started from that clarity. That says everything about the impact of this day.”
Who is the coach behind GM Academy?
Charmaine Pas is a dating and relationship coach for men, based in the Netherlands, combining topsport discipline with sharp emotional intelligence.
Charmaine Pas built GM Academy, the GentleMan Academy, in practice, not on paper. She started as an elite athlete, where she learned that mindset determines how far you go, not just in sports, but in love and life. After her sports career, she wrote Good Mood Food, then published two e-books: 10 Dating Tips for Men and 7 Dating Tips for Women. What started as a health and mindset passion grew into a coaching practice when men kept asking her the same question: why can I not find a woman who actually fits who I am now? That question became her mission. Today she coaches men across the Netherlands from her base in the Den Haag area, with sessions on the beach at Kijkduin and at her office in Maassluis. Her style is direct, honest, and grounded in humor. She holds up a mirror without apology, and she does it in a way that moves men forward fast. Fifteen verified Google reviews consistently describe her as sharp, practical, and straight to the point.
Most dating coaches start with tactics: what to say, how to text, when to call. I start with the man himself. Because the version of you from ten years ago is not who you are today, and she should be attracted to who you are now.
What does GM Academy offer men who are stuck in dating or relationships?
GM Academy offers three paths: the VIP Program, the Powerdag, and a Dating Video Course for men.
VIP Program
From doubt to clarity and leadership in your love life.
- Duration:
- 6 months 1-on-1
- For:
- Successful businessmen who are serious about changing their love life
- Result:
- You are version 2.0 of yourself. You know who you are, what you have to offer, and how to use that to attract the right woman. Without tricks, by being yourself.
Power Day
One intensive afternoon. Find out how you come across and make the difference.
- Duration:
- Intensive afternoon (2pm-8pm)
- For:
- Men who want to know exactly how they come across to women and want direct, concrete feedback
- Result:
- You know exactly where you stand, what works and what you can improve. You go home with a concrete and solid action plan you can start working on straight away.
Coaching sessions
Personal coaching for men who want to succeed in love.
- Duration:
- 1 session online · 1 session in person · 1 month · 3 months · 1 session
- For:
- Successful businessmen who want to break through in their love life
- Result:
- You know who your dream woman truly is, how to attract her, and what your next step is. Your confidence is back, and you are ready to take action.
Dating Video Course
Practical, no-nonsense insights on dating and attraction — at your own pace. Straightforward, actionable, and zero fluff.
- Duration:
- Self-paced
- For:
- The man who wants to get started on his own and build a solid foundation before anything else.
- Result:
- You'll understand your own patterns, know what you're putting out there, and have real tools to date from a place of genuine confidence.
What results do men get from working with GM Academy?
Over 34 verified reviews rate GM Academy as excellent. Men report faster clarity, stronger confidence, and real changes in dating results.
Reviews from verified customers
“Leuk, goed gesprek gehad met goede rakende eerlijke feedback.”
Koen Brands
“Ik heb coachsessie gehad van 4x en Charmaine heeft mij goed geholpen met inzichtelijk maken wat ik wil en wat ik zoek. Dit kan ik nu meer in de praktijk toepassen. Ze geeft goede feedback op vragen en ervaringen.”
Niels R
“Charmaine heeft me enorm geholpen bij het opzetten van mijn online dating profielen en het gemakkelijker maken om gesprekken met vrouwen aan te knopen. Haar aanpak is persoonlijk en doeltreffend en praktisch. Ze houdt je een spiegel voor en geeft tips, waardoor ik me zelfverzekerder voel. Ik kan haar coaching aan iedereen aanraden!”
Jesse
How does GM Academy share knowledge on men, dating, and self-awareness?
Charmaine Pas shares practical knowledge through a free guide, an online video course.
Why Self-Awareness Comes Before Dating Strategy
Most men start dating without knowing who they are right now. That mismatch is why they keep attracting the wrong partner.
How to Attract a Masculine-Energy Woman in 2026
Attract a masculine-energy woman by grounding yourself in stable, authentic male energy. Polarization — not competition — creates chemistry, trust, and lasting attraction.
Who Is Charmaine Pas and Why She Coaches Men
Charmaine Pas coaches men on self-awareness first because knowing who you are determines which partner you attract and whether a relationship works.
What 11 Years Together Actually Taught Us
Strong relationships are built on daily choice, clear communication, and staying curious about each other - not on finding a perfect match.
Frequently asked questions about GM Academy
What does GM Academy actually do?
GM Academy coaches men who are stuck in dating or relationships. Charmaine Pas helps men understand who they are now, not who they were ten years ago, so they attract a partner who fits the current version of themselves or restore the energy in an existing relationship. Sessions run in The Hague, Kijkduin, and Maassluis.
Who is GM Academy's coaching designed for?
Primarily for men who are honest with themselves about being stuck and ready to do something about it. Successful men, entrepreneurs, managers who have their professional life sorted but keep hitting a wall in love. Charmaine also works with women on occasion. If you are open to a mirror being held up, you are in the right place.
What makes GM Academy different from other dating coaches?
The sequence. Charmaine does not start with tactics or scripts. She starts with self-knowledge: who are you now, what do you actually want, and what are you unconsciously projecting. The attraction and the dating strategy follow from that. This is why results tend to stick rather than fade after a few weeks.
How does working with GM Academy start?
Every collaboration begins with an intake conversation. Charmaine is direct about this: without a real click, the mission is pointless. From there you choose the path that fits, whether that is three coaching sessions, a single Power Day, the video course from 97 euros. The first step is booking your breakthrough call.
What do GM Academy's coaching and courses cost?
The Dating Video Course starts at 97 euros. Coaching sessions start from €250 excl. VAT. The Power Day is €1,000 and the VIP Program is €7,500. All prices exclude VAT. Contact Charmaine directly for a quote that matches your situation and what you actually need.
Ready to find out exactly where things are going wrong?
Most men who reach out to GM Academy already know something needs to change. They just have not had someone sharp enough to show them exactly what it is. Charmaine does that in the first conversation. Book your breakthrough call and within one session you will know more about your own patterns than you have figured out in the last few years. No obligation, no vague intake forms, just a direct conversation.